The concept I found interesting is Intimacy Trophies. My
husband and I have wedding bands, but rarely wear them. It’s not about the
material things, it’s about the love and respect we share. I sometimes wear his
jacket, but not as a symbol of anything, but because it was probably easier to
get to, and I was too lazy to go get my jacket. It’s all about the trust. We
have one rule “don’t cheat”. It’s not a hard rule to live by, but knowing we
trust each other makes it easier. We don’t have a song, or restaurant, but we
do have our memories. I watch my parent’s generation who cling onto material
things, you would never catch my parents without their wedding bands, and then
I’ve noticed the latest trend if getting tattoo rings vs. the traditional gold
wedding bands. The ideas of intimacy trophies changes over the years, but in
the end it’s all about the trust that you and your partner have.
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